I want to be a Monday Teacher

This summer when I was at the SDE Las Vegas conference, I saw many inspirational speakers. One was Dr. Danny Brassell. He encouraged us all to be Monday teachers. Teachers who are excited to go to work every day. Teachers who are excited for the new week. He said not to be a Friday teacher, someone only living for the weekend; waiting and wanting to be done with work. The teachers ready to leave before students are even on the buses.

 I want to be a Monday teacher. I do. This year is making it hard. Everyday there is a new challenge, a new obstacle. If it isn't a student challenge, it's a parent or paper work challenge. Some days it's all three. Since the start of school, I've had maybe one day where I didn't feel completely exhausted, where I hadn't struggled in some way.  There have been weeks where I was a Friday teacher.

Next week is  Thanksgiving. This is one of my favorite holidays and always will be. It reminds me of my Puritan heritage, my family traditions and reminds me to be  thankful. I have  an amazing life that I have worked hard for. I know I deserve the happiness  I feel daily. I am thankful for the challenges I have faced this year, because in the end  they are only making me stronger. I will be a better person and better teacher because of them.

I am thankful for my administration, my aids, my fellow teachers. With out all of these supports I wouldn't survive.

I am thankful for my students.

Today was a rough day. Many of them struggled through out the day and some lashed out at me.

As they were leaving, all of them gave me a hug. 

They said good bye, have a good break and I will miss you.
 I will miss them too.
After  those hugs, I know I can keep going.

They know I care and I know they do too. Even when they say they don't. 

I can be a Monday teacher again, I just need to focus on the positives. I need to focus on the love. I need to keep being thankful.

Be an Advocate

As a teacher or parent, it is important to be an advocate for your students or child. When special education students are involved, this is even more important. Special education students, like young children cannot always tell you what they need.

It is important as a person who cares for them to make sure you always have their best interests in mind. Sometimes this requires taking the time to reach out and get more support. A student can't do that for themselves. They need the support of adults who love them and care for them. Sometimes parents are a student's biggest advocates. Sometimes teachers are. In a perfect world, there is a strong team of support wrapped around every student.

If you don't advocate for students, if you don't ask for the supports they need; then students will not get those supports. You might not always get what you want, but sometimes you will. It doesn't mean you are making enemies, it means you are seeking friends and supports. It means if something doesn't sound right or feel right then you do something about it and find others that can help.

Raise your voice. 
Ask for help. 
Seek answers. 
Advocate. 

It can have a huge impact. It might just change a life.

Disillusionment Phase

Lately, there has been increasing amounts of research for the first year of teaching. There are phases that are being referenced.

Before students arrive, you are in Anticipation Phase. Dreaming and planning for the year to come.

Then, school starts and you enter the Survival Phase.  This is when you are doing just that, surviving; week to week, day to day, hour to hour.

Then, Disillusionment Phases hits. This is where I am currently living. I am at the point I question if I made a good choice moving to special education, if I can handle it, is it worth it? 
What did I get myself into? 
Do I love my students? Yes. 
Do I think about quitting my job and crawling in a cave daily? Yes.

The Phases of the First-Year Teachers' Attitude Toward Teaching also mirrors some aspects of the Phases associated with a disaster. The predictable phases of any disaster, in order, are: (1) Preparation, (2) Alert, (3) Impact, (4) Heroic, (5) Disillusionment, and (6) Recovery. Coincidence? I think not. 

I am questioning everything. I know that I am a good teacher. I know that I care about my students. I don't know if I made a good choice and I don't know what to do next.

I am exhausted. My aids are exhausted. We are all stressed.We haven't given up, and it helps that we are in it together; but I don't know what to do.

I am done. 
I am numb.
I am drowning. 
I'm toast. 
I am ready to hibernate for the rest of the year. 
Good Bye. 

Teacher Burnout

Teacher burnout is real and it is a problem in our country. There is huge turn over in education from early childhood and elementary to special education. We need skilled teachers to stay in schools, our kids and country need them; need us. But burnout is real, teaching can make you tired.Challenging classes can weigh on you.

I think about my students (my kids) ALL the time! I think about their lives, their families, their futures. I wrack my brain trying to figure out what skills and strategies I can teach them that will matter, that will help them be the best they can be. I think about their passions, how can I help them figure out skills that will help them work in an area they are passionate about?

When I am not thinking about my students, I am doing paperwork. It seems the paperwork is never ending. Like I said in a previous post, I am not a Type-A, everything needs to be perfectly organized kind of person. However, I wish I was some days. Any Type-As want to come organize my life? Or at least my desk?

The class I have this year is by far the most challenging I have ever had. Academics are easy to differentiate, I feel like this is where I am the most confident. It's the behaviors I am struggling with. When you are in a setting where students are not with their non-disabled peers, they don't get to see what is typical as frequently. They see a lot of atypical behavior. I have a class that struggles to stand in line, they talk constantly and more than half of my students have had a physical outburst this year. It's exhausting for myself, for my aids and for the other students. 

We just had CPI training this week. When I was sitting in the training, all I kept thinking was "These are my kids, this is exactly what they do." People go through different levels when they are escalating, a bell curve if the escalation happens slowly or a steep cliff if it happens quickly. They enter a state where they lose rationality. Seeing one of my students go through this is one of the most emotionally draining experiences I have ever had. I feel for my students and their families. It is exhausting. I appreciate the support families give and I appreciate when they say sorry, even though the outburst isn't their fault. When they are supportive, when they say sorry, it shows me that they understand and they appreciate that I am not giving up on their child. 

If you have a child who has outbursts, make sure you support their teacher and thank them for what they do. They need to hear it. They appreciate when they do and it will help get them through those rough times. It might help keep some really great teachers from getting burnt out and leaving the profession they love. 

The only things keeping me from burnout status are: trainings, long weekends, knowing break is coming, wine, and forcing myself to use my nights and weekends for me. I've also decided I need to start doing yoga regularly again (I haven't been invested in my practice since college). I hope this will help me feel more balanced and less exhausted. 

Visual schedules

In gen Ed, it's important to post the schedule and expectations. There is a lot of research out there supporting it. In special Ed, it's also important but can look very different. It is essential that students know what their day looks like and what is expected of them.

I am working with students who don't do well with change, they need to know what's coming and what I will be expecting them to do. If I change the schedule or it wasn't clear, it can be very bad for some of my friends; when it's bad for them it's bad for everyone.

For new special educators (like myself) this can result in some trial and error. I started the year with two schedules. One for my 3rd-4th graders and one for my 5th grader.

I now have 6 schedules for 8 students and another schedule for my aids that is subject to change at any time based on student needs and the day.

 I have moved from having my schedules posted on my white board to having individual schedules on students desks. The schedules are on a Velcro strip and students need to physically move the pieces as they complete their tasks. The pieces have board maker pictures and simple labels.  We will start using them on Monday.

Hopefully this method works well for my students. Between my aids and myself, we've spent atleast to 10 hours printing,  cutting, laminating, Velco-ing and setting up to use these new schedules. Classroom set up is never easy and it takes a long time. This year it has been nonstop. We keep changing things as student needs change.

Next, I need to create break cards :D

Maybe we will  have it all figured out by Christmas break.

I abhor paperwork! (My seventh grade English teacher told me to never use the word hate.)

In the general education classroom, I thought there was a lot of paperwork. I had to make lots of copies, grade papers, keep track of grades, write progress reports and report cards; and occasionally I would need to sign some IEP papers for a special education teacher.

 I was wrong. 

I had it good and didn't even know how good I had it.

Now...

I have to write those IEPs. In undergrad we had "practiced" writing IEPs in my special education class, but having to write a REAL, LEGAL, BINDING document is STRESSFUL! 

Everything needs to be correct, exact, no room for errors. 

There are timelines. LEGAL timelines. Timelines that have real consequences and ramifications if they are not met. 

But that's not all

I also still need to do progress reports, report cards, grading, creating, printing, copying, ect. 

I am not a Type A teacher. 

Staying organized is difficult for me. I like to go where the wind blows. I need new systems, because my usual sticky note system is failing me miserably.

I am drowning in a sea of sticky notes! SOS please some one help me!

Ain't no tired like SDC teacher tired

We've been in school for about a month now. It's been one of the most challenging months of my career. I've laughed, I've cried, I've gone to bed at 7 because I was exhausted and stayed up to midnight because I couldn't sleep without finishing something. I've made mistakes and started building relationships.

Help!

 I've also asked for help. Lots of help. I have a small class, but each student has very different needs and it is hard to meet them all. I have been lucky, I have two wonderful aids/para-educators who are right there beside me; helping me meet those needs. I have supportive administration who comes when I call and hasn't once made me feel like I'm in it alone. 

I need a nap!

Even with all this support, I'm exhausted. I'm mentally, emotionally and physically drained. 

This song has been stuck in my head all week...

"I've been high, I've been low.... You saved me San Francisco" 

TGIF 

3 day weekend! I'm ready to get away for a few days so I can come back rejuvenated!